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Challenging experiences

In the study “How Indian Leaders Learn”[1] where I had an opportunity to participate and explore, quite a few leaders shared events that were of the nature of 'going through a challenging assignment'. In the study, leaders talked about various assignments where they learnt important lessons that helped them grow as a business leader. Typical examples of such assignments were a 'change of role' i.e. being nominated at a leadership position for the first time, a 'fix it' situation – getting into a seriously troublesome situation and bringing it back to order,  an 'assignment which had many adverse conditions', 'green field' assignments i.e. assignments where you are starting from scratch. Naturally, the lessons learnt would be different based on the situation, but some themes are common. So in this article I am exploring these themes, my impressions about the themes and what could block learning in such cases.

One pertinent thing that I observed here was that these assignments get executed over a period of time. The 'event' is not a sharp or quickly executed experience, unlike an event such as the death of a parent. Rather, such an assignment is a 'series' of short events leading to many interconnected learning cycles. Since many leaders recall this as a significant event, it probably means that the collective learning from that set is significant.

Another thing I noticed was that, often, these experiences brought out the confidence in the leader. The leaders said 'It was then I realized that I could truly lead a team'. What it meant to me was that discovery process in the learning is important and that discovery provides an “Aha!” moment. Even when you discover that you 'can’t do something', it is a moment of relief that helps to sort out your priorities.

I also observed that learning was not restricted to a domain or area. It was frequently multifaceted, ranging across technical knowhow, legal requirements, how to handle people, strategic thinking and so on.

Going beyond the original study, I continued observing people who would try to bite the bullet and take up the assignment. I realized that there were environmental factors that assisted in learning. Although not a properly researched list, following are some of my observations.

The first factor was the readiness of the person. There may be a range of situations. An assignment may be precious and associated with rank growth. So, the person jumps in without a good understanding of the risks involved. In another case, the leader knows all the risk, does not want to get into risky situation and is in it only because he is forced. Yet another condition is when the person assesses the risk, but is ready to plunge into the challenge. The learning is naturally higher in the last case.

Another personal attribute to consider is how a person looks at their failures. If the person has a tendency to blame others, they are naturally not going to learn. They will invent conspiracy theories and look for data to support such a theory, making it more difficult to proceed in the learning cycle.

Another factor is support from the environment. There are different players in the environment that have a role. One part of the environment is the supervisor who can guide and mentor. I am going to discuss the influence of boss on the learning process in a different article. But anyone can imagine that a good supervisor will provide guidance, suggest corrections and provide moral support.

One more factor is the team, peers and other coworkers. This is where the environment gets challenging. The leader has to earn this support. Some of people could be competitors, some others may not respect the leader. A lot of lessons about influencing and motivating come into play in such cases.

Another part of the environment is family. I once met a leader in a company which has a large colony to house the employees. The leader was young but was already on medication for heart trouble and diabetes. I talked to him about his stress regarding 'success'. His reply was, “Madam, if I don’t get promoted, my family will know about it even before I return from office." And the network of family members were in fact more strongly competitive, making it hard for anyone who was not growing. His reply was disturbing. Success is important, but challenging assignments will always have higher possibility of failure if the family is not supportive.

This external environment is, thus, very critical when it comes to a person’s response to failures. If the environment is not very tolerant of failures, as was the case for the leader mentioned above, people will either get stressed or very cleverly hide the failure from the system and from themselves.

I talked here about learning experiences that developed leadership, as that is where I was connected in the past years. However, challenging experiences could be faced in multiple contexts. A simple trek may pose a significant challenge. There are some people who just pick a challenge and pursue it, because they just like the process of fighting that challenge. Maybe they learn something and cherish that discovery process. 

If we want to get best out of challenges, we need to take them on with preparation, observe carefully, question the assumption and review our prejudices. As we saw, experience is not enough. We need observe, reflect, generalize and experiment. A long chain of challenges without a breather would simply burn us out. There are also some people who just don’t like uncertainty. They may still learn a few things but surely, they miss many opportunities. Many times, many of us don’t observe these pitfalls, losing our opportunity to learn.

In my next article, I will ponder over how 'moving' i.e. changing place, team, assignment etc. introduces a set of experiences that trigger learning.

What do you think about my thoughts so far? Do let me know

 


[1] “How Indian Leaders Learn” was a research project conducted jointly by Tata Management Training Center and Center for Creative Leadership in 2006-2007. In the study, we interviewed senior business leaders asking them “What are the key events in your life that you think helped you develop as leaders and what did you learn from them?”

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